Saturday, October 28, 2006

This is a subject I am trying not to be jealous or petty about. Fairness ,and equality in the work place. Favoritism does exist. Some people are more fav than others. That is reality. I was off work ,sick for nearly 3 months. When I got back to work I was aproached to donate to some cards and gifts for others who were off sick for only 3 weeks. I was taken aback at first. I did not get a card, nor a gift saying that I was missed. Why do some people matter and not others. I worked this through in my mind. Was it because my illness is not as life threatening as others? Or was it because I am not a favorite in the eyes of my boss? I don't know.? I think it is the latter. I may not be important to my collegues, but in the eyes of the lovely cadets that I clean for , I matter very much. All I have heard from them is praise, since I have returned to work. They are so happy , and notice that I make their lives easier by what I do for them. That is all that matters. After all, if it wasn't for the cadets, I would not have a job. I must remind myself that I must do my job for God and not for men. Then things in my mind would be far easier. But my human mind tells me that I must work to please my boss. I long to hear praise from my supervisor. I'm afraid that will never happen. My supervisor is such a ditts. Sorry to say but it is the truth. So I will have to hang on to the praises of the cadets and know that I am doing a good job. I will never hear it from my supervisors, that's for sure.

5 comments:

J. Andrew Lockhart said...

hang in there! I work with 29 women, so I know what it is to not being fare! :)

Norma said...

This is so common--even in churches. The only solution I know is to send REAL cards (not e-mails) to the people you know who are sick or suffering. Yours may be the only one they get.

FRIDAY'S CHILD said...

I really am very sorry for how you feel but I felt this way when I used to work too. But there are others who give praises more than those you expect to give it to you. Anyway, I have put this aside and didn't mind them and made my life better and easier.
Thanks for dropping by and a Happy Halloweeen.

granniepat said...

remember the fruit basket

Chaotic Mom said...

I think you have the key. Hang on to what's important to YOU. Ignore the others. What makes you happy and brings YOU peace is good for your soul and heart.

Yes, there is favoritism. And thoughtless actions some folks may not even realize they're doing. Hang in there! I think this is a good place for you to share. ;)